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dejaveux | ME - girl: (Sun) Sag (Moon) Scorpio (Mercury) Scorpio (Venus) Scorpio (Mars) Capricorn (Jupiter) Libra (Saturn) Libra (Uranus) Scorpio (Neptune) Sag (Pluto) Libra THE OTHER HALF- man: (Sun) Virgo (Moon) Sag (Mercury) Virgo (Venus) Leo (Mars) Scorpio (Jupiter) Scorpio (Saturn) Libra (Uranus/Neptune) Sag (Pluto) Libra We just *get* each other. But trust issues abound. We're still dancing around playing games to guess how serious the other one is and if we can let it all emotionally hang loose. Sometimes I feel he understands me more emotionally than I understand myself. We're sinking into a kind of co-dependency that most girlfriends envy and others make faces at. Any recommendations how to pull this one out of his shell and get him to realize my world/life/reason for waking can and will revolve around him when he's proven I can turn by back on him? Amazingly, we're both faithful, we just haven't convinced ourselves that the other is :s
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GypseeWind | I'm a Sag too and for years I dated Virgo men. One that I especially cared for was a Virgo Sun/Venus. In my experience these men take a looooong time to come around. They are very cerebral and rational. So if you have the patience to wait then go for it, but pushing won't work. I tried it, lol. |
dejaveux | Ah, for him I would wait. He's a lovely person and really very sensitive (although he has to play tough in real life) |
Aries23Degrees | Yikes!! Do you have Venus/Mars conjunct in Scorpio natally? And do your Scorpio placements aspect his Venus/Mars in Leo/Scorpio combo? Having Scorpio placements tends to put "trust" at the forefront of everything. You are likely to be a lot more emotional than he is. And feel things a lot more intensely too. |
dejaveux | My venus is conjuct his mars my sun is conjunct his mooni guess a lot of it is newness. i am afraid to show too much of myself. i'm never sure the other person reciprocates...bad history of giving too much too soon!! |
dejaveux | quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Yikes!! Do you have Venus/Mars conjunct in Scorpio natally?And do your Scorpio placements aspect his Venus/Mars in Leo/Scorpio combo?
Are these good things or bad things?! LOL...you're "yikes" has me worried |
Aries23Degrees | It's really not something to worry about. But can can be challenging. Scorpio,Leo and Cap energy tend to be quite intense.And detachment is very hard. If you can ease the suspicious nature of Scorpio within yourself,you can model that to the partner so that they can be "at peace" too. |